When we think of homelessness, we think of a person who does not has a physical home, job, or money. There are a lot of people living on the streets who suffer from both physical and emotional homelessness. Similarly, there are individuals who have a house but not a home. They have access to necessities, but they lack emotional support and therefore can be classified as “Emotionally Homeless”

DEFINITION OF EMOTIONAL HOMELESSNESS

Emotional Homelessness is a lack of a sense of worth, purpose and belonging in an individual who may or may not have a safe place to live in. It is an utter lack of a loving, caring and protective environment where they feel happy and content with their relationships. It is possible to be emotionally alienated even when a human being comes from a privileged or wealthy background.

CAUSES OF EMOTIONAL HOMELESSNESS

We believe that homelessness is caused by poverty, economic hurdles, and lack of affordable housing or government support; however, homelessness is likewise caused by physical, sexual and emotional trauma.

To understand fully, we must first know that home is not just a roof and four walls or a safe place to live in. Home is a place that provides security, happiness, contentment, acceptance, forgiveness, and overall growth of an individual selflessly. Family life is the initial exposure of an individual to a mini-society that teaches them about their own social stand in the world.

Here are the causes of Emotional Homelessness:

Epidemics of Alcohols and Drugs as a substitute for happiness

Millennials wait all week for Friday and all year for Christmas. They are constantly stressed about everything happening or not happening around them. Alcohol and drug absorption are often greater these days than compared to our ancestors. We use harmful substances as a surrogate for peace of mind.

Stress is not perceived as a problem

An average teenager has higher stress than a 70-year-old on his deathbed had fifty years ago. Most people do not realize that having trouble falling asleep and remembering are symptoms of depression. Many people accept being stressed but do not consider themselves depressed. Stress is a risk factor for depression which shows up in physical symptoms.

Social Isolation

Social isolation poses a considerable health risk. It could be provoked by living alone, having a smaller social circle, introvert personality, hectic lifestyle, and occasional participation in social activities. We have access to social media and an opportunity to connect with millions of people, but the community and relationship ties are diminishing at an exponential rate.

Competition from a pool of 7 billion people

Our ancestors lived far happier than us as they were not competing with the 7 billion people of the world. With globalization, we are permanently on our toes working double shifts trying to save our jobs as the companies can always find someone who will do it better.

Higher Expectations

In an age of email, Facebook, and Twitter, we are required to multi task all the time which is not always good for our brains. The bombarding of excessive information makes it extremely difficult for the brain to decide what you need and what can be ignored. We are doing the jobs of 10 different people at the same time managing our personal lives with parents, children, friends, and favorite TV shows. “Aim for the sky and you will reach the stars” has been misused by this generation.

CURE FOR EMOTIONAL HOMELESSNESS

Our approach to homelessness is not far-sighted but rather materialistic, based on bricks and mortar, food and medicines, skills, and finances. We can only end homelessness by taking holistic measures that meet not just physical needs but emotional, spiritual, and psychological.

The basic psychological needs are to be loved, to be listened, to belong, to achieve and to have meaning and hope. While working towards the homeless population, we offer physical shelters but not homes. We completely neglect the fact that these individuals are vulnerable and deprived of loving relationships or have suffered immense pain and trauma through a damaging relationship.

Breaking through the barriers of distrust, trauma and pain on the streets takes time, energy, and a compassionate heart.  The cure for “emotional homelessness” is positive human companionship. We need to see another as a valuable person, notice their skills and talents and help them become better human beings. Many people think the answer to a homeless person’s problem is to get a house, but this is not always the solution. They have unmet emotional and mental needs from childhood that makes them incomplete human beings. We can only provide them with a house, not a home.

                                                       

Career & Recovery Resources, Inc. is a nonprofit, multi-service agency of the United Way of Greater Houston established in 1945 by B’nai B’rith. In our 73rdyear, Career & Recovery Resource’s mission is to help people identify and overcome barriers to employment for no cost. In 2017, we served over 13,500 individuals through our various programs and outreach efforts including academic funding, assessing career interests and aptitude, job counseling, technology training, preparation for GED, job search support, interviewing skills, resume building, access to telephones to contact employers and access to free job fairs, which offer direct employment from $8 to $50 per hour. We have been successfully breaking the barriers in employment such as communication difficulties, low morale, discrimination, transportation difficulties, long hours, maltreatment, physical and mental limitations, and lack of proper education.

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